

Technically your one simple question was actually three complicated questions. There are tons of other hottie fishes in the sea who will be more than happy with what you've got. They aren't your "audience." So don't worry about them. And so what if your dick can't satiate some super hungry power bottom. The fact of the matter is that there is just no "one-size-fits-all" dick size out there.

I have met men who have been so well endowed that they have a hard time finding guys who will let them fuck them. But also keep in mind that this can be a problem on both ends of the spectrum. The reality though is that sometimes size can matter (emphasis on "sometimes" and "can"). We pretty much all have something to offer. The best way to get confidence is by focusing on the stuff you like about yourself rather than the stuff you don't like. It's tough to have hot sex if you're constantly doubting yourself.

Good sex is all about figuring out your mate's sexual energy and matching that with your energy - the way you kiss, the way you touch, the way you grab hold of them and make them feel so fucking wanted. Confidence is definitely key. Rather they talk about the energy of it - how it rough and wild and sweaty it was, or how slow and passionate and intense. And if they do, it's rarely one of the leading descriptives. Think about it. when a friend tells you about some awesome sex they've recently had, they don't really mention their mate's dick size. In fact, more often than not, it has very little to do with it. Here's the thing: sex isn't JUST about how deep you can penetrate your partner with your wang. No pizza guy is going to come to the door ready for a BJ just as much as it doesn't really matter if we have a smaller dick. But as we already know, porn rarely reflects reality. I imagine that comes from all that porn we watch. Great topic! I agree that gay men can put more worry into the size of our dicks.
